OK, I'm officially pissed off at YouTube that seems to be refusing to post my entire playlist linked together here. So... I"m having to add each of them. If you only look at one, look at the titled "Snow days - snow craze - the cabin fever sets in V".
Snow days - snow craze - the cabin fever sets in I
Snow days - snow craze - the cabin fever sets in II
Snow days - snow craze - the cabin fever sets in III
Snow days - snow craze - the cabin fever sets in IV
Snow days - snow craze - the cabin fever sets in V
Snow days - snow craze - the cabin fever sets in VI
Monday, February 8, 2010
Paul Can Stand on his Own!
I should be blogging about the more than 2 feet of snow we've gotten here in Washington, DC but I'm totally focused on the fact that my 11 month old son has spent the past few days working on standing with out holding on to anything. That little guys is soooo very close to walking - boy are we ever in trouble!
Some shots of Paul mastering his new skill:
OK, a couple of shots of the snow too:
Some shots of Paul mastering his new skill:
OK, a couple of shots of the snow too:
Wednesday, February 3, 2010
Giving up The Dream?
…oi!
That HURTS to say in the past tense. I do mean it HURTS both physically and emotionally. Can it really be over? The dream? It can’t be! Is this really how it happens? The seemingly small choices I’ve made during my life to date have made major impacts on my art “career” (in quotes because I’m not sure it ever could have been considered a career).
How it happened:
- Art school, then...
- Diversionary Choice #1: Didn’t finish school to follow ex-husband to DC
- Diversionary Choice #2: slowed creativity to concentrate on making more money to...well, live
- Diversionary Choice #3: Divorced ex-husband and left with extremely burdenous debt, thus more concentration on work/money and less on painting
- Glimmer of light (insert choir of angels here): noticed downturn in creativity and general malaise in my attitude..worked toward painting more and started showing in galleries in DC...things were looking good!
- Diversionary Choice #4: FELL. IN. LOVE.
- Diversionary Choice #5 (and they really start coming fast now): move in with new love
- Diversionary Choice #6: have babies with new love
- Diversionary Choice #7: which actually looked like a good move towards painting more: QUIT WORKING, to stay home with new baby...that new baby required more time and attention than I thought...no painting occurred.
- Diversionary Choice #8: Baby #2
- Diversionary Choice #9: go back to work to gain good education for little cherubs
My method of painting back pre-boyfriend, pre-kids, pre----any-kind-of-responsibility, beyond sustenance for myself was… work all day, paint all night with wine and music (and after a couple of glasses of wine it was dancing and painting) and sleep 3 or 4 hours, repeat. Come the weekend it was play all day, play all night, paint all morning, sleep 3 or 4 hours, repeat.
What a life. I look back on it in fondness and miss the inspiration gained from consorting with strangers, sitting on the sidelines watching life go by, people watching (which I think takes a certain skill - people don't look at one another anymore!), spur-of-the-moment jaunts to the National Gallery of Art, etc… etc… etc…
I can totally see how the infamous bad-boys of the art world, shirked all relationships to live the bohemian life of art, sex, drugs and fun! What a life! And here’s the thing… to be great at something, anything not just art…to be truly great... you really do have to make those big choices. There are so, so few out there who accomplish the big achievements without some sort of huge personal or emotional sacrifice.
That’s it. That’s where I sit. Could I have been a great artist, heck I don’t know. In all reality, probably not. To be a house-hold name in art/painting is even harder than becoming a household name in movies. How many RECENT artists do you know off the top of your head? If you know more than 5 then your disqualified because you’re one of my artist friends who is steeped in the current art world. If you’re a common person, not following the art game, Joe-schmoe who has happened upon my blog, chances are the first artist you think of is Warhol or Pollock..then…your stuck listing off Renoir or Degas or Picasso.
So, the question remains. Is the dream gone? Have I given up the dream? Where in my daily routine can I fit in painting?! Here’s the daily agenda:
6:00a.m. – 7:30 a.m. wake with kids, get them up dressed, fed, cleaned from feeding, diaper changes, bags packed for school and ready to leave…most of the time I don’t get to eat breakfast…
8:00 a.m. – 8:30 a.m. – get kids to school, catch bus to work
9:00 am. – arrive at work
6:30 – 8:30 p.m. somewhere in there I get to leave work – depends on the day
7:00 p.m. – 9:00 pm. depending on when I leave work I get home, if home by 7pm I put the oldest to bed, the youngest is already in bed, eat dinner and go to bed by 9 or 10pm (I’m up late tonight at 10:15 p.m.).
And that’s my day. No exercise. No art. Barely time to say hello to my husband. I am soooo sooooo ready for this routine to change!
HOW IN THE HELL DO WORKING PARENTS KEEP THIS PACE?!
Have I been spoiled up until now? I used to luxuriate in idle debates of world-issues with my husband over a glass of wine and whatever exotic meal we decided to create that evening with some random favorite music of ours playing in the background.
GONE.
Those days are so long gone, that it’s simply sad to even think about now.
But there is hope. There is light at the end of the tunnel. There is the progression of time where the kids get older, slightly more independent … able to dress themselves... able to go to bed without a major hour long battle…able to “put pee pee in the potty” by themselves, for Christ’s sake! When those days get here perhaps I can gain a minute here and minute there and suddenly a full hour to … in all reality probably not paint, but SLEEP!
This all probably gives new meaning to the phrase "a tortured artist"!
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